So first of all, I agree with the construction expert - the alarm bells should have been ringing earlier. But the waters seem to have calmed and everything appears to be back on an orderly course.
There is a difference whether there is photovoltaic or not. Photovoltaics will cause additional costs in 5-10 years at the latest (new inverter, etc.). A "better" brick does not cost money in 10 years. The appearance is also quite different. For me, this would be a significant difference. Maybe the OP wanted to have a new roof window installed on the south side in 5 years - then he can no longer do that. Something like that must/should be discussed beforehand???
If it had been photovoltaics at a "zero cost," in my opinion, the future costs of inverter replacement could easily have been absorbed. You would not have paid anything for the acquisition and installation and still produced electricity that you could consume yourself (20-30% of self-consumption should be coverable) or sell at the unfortunately now low tariffs. Since heating and hot water are produced here with a heat pump, the energy demand of the pump could also have been covered to a (large) part during the spring - autumn period (only a small part in winter).
I think these savings at "zero cost" would have brought the OP quite a bit in the long run and more than offset the future maintenance costs (my opinion).