we would then move to a somewhat more rural area. So do you think that even if we find a plot for 100,000 euros, the house would easily cost over 300,000 with a garage? So with a garage and outdoor facilities around 500,000? then we would rather discard the plan...
Financially, that would probably be doable. You have a lot of equity if you sell your current house. However, you should discuss beforehand what you really want. You could be completely debt-free in a few years and have a paid-off house in your mid-30s. That is absolute luxury and only very few can afford it!! If your work allows, you can reduce your hours and spend a lot of time with the children. Probably many dream of that who have just built a house in their mid-30s.
When I hear that, I’m really a little jealous
That’s not possible for us, but I am currently really enjoying working from home and thus being able to spend much more time with the children.