The "architect" conversation with the general contractors usually means a coordination meeting with the person responsible for making the building application ready, who are partly actually architects, but often simply draftspersons. You regularly don’t get to experience true creativity here. The criticism here has already helped many questioners and has toughened them up concerning the tone.
We have also asked here before about other topics and received help; surely we will soon come around to the floor plan as well. It’s somehow a pity that one can expect so little from the average general contractor, but unfortunately, this became very clear to us through many conversations with some GUs on other topics. You have to try to know everything, preferably better than they do, hence this thread here.
Roof windows are especially important for rooms located in the middle of the eaves; rooms with (also) gable-side exterior walls are better lit via those. The parapet part of floor-to-ceiling windows can be equipped with frosted glass.
Maybe we’re weird, but floor-to-ceiling windows on the upper floor will probably not work. Subjectively, they are annoyingly visible (even with frosted glass, silhouettes, and the like still there), annoying to clean (you can’t imagine unless you always want to rearrange when cleaning), subjectively ugly parapets. As said, that’s just our taste; these things have many advantages, especially the price.
"Dormers" (mostly rather: cross dormers) can usually be realized on up to one-third of the eaves length and bring, not least there, a standing height that makes a significant difference. I would choose a roof pitch closer to 40° than to 60°.
I just found the price relatively steep, especially since 15k is for the "small" dormer, which only fits one "smaller" window per room (we didn’t inquire more precisely here, hence the vagueness). Do you think it would be worth it? This would apparently eliminate the two additional Velux windows, so effectively 9k more expensive without windows and shutters. We think we can live well with the standing height as small people; I’m used to 60cm clear knee wall from childhood and it bothers me little. We will have a 45° roof with 90cm clear knee wall, which I think is okay for the roof pitch. We definitely agree with you on the roof pitch.