This has long been common practice with heat pump tariffs?! That’s why my heat pump is connected to the house meter! ;-)
Well, I was talking about short-term grid interventions. At the lowest distribution level. Scenario: The on-off heat pump sends a signal via data link to the grid control center that it intends to start a heating cycle sometime in the next 15-30 minutes. The grid control sends a release signal at a favorable moment, for example when another load drops off. Or, second scenario, the neighbor Mr. Meyer presses the paid "turbo charging" button at the wallbox to quickly charge his Porsche Taycan. There is currently not enough capacity available in the grid section. So all modulating heat pumps are reduced to the lowest power level and maybe an on-off heat pump is temporarily switched off. This continues until capacity is free again or the Porsche is fully charged. *That* would be adaptive load control with heat pumps.
In Norway, they are already much further ahead than here. A friend recently showed me the app for the direct electricity heating of his holiday cabin there. He can see the daily electricity price curve (apparently with minute accuracy) and can define a threshold at which the heating switches on to maintain the target temperature. Or, alternatively, he inputs two days before arriving at the cabin the time by which the indoor temperature should reach the target value. Then the heating control optimizes the heating curve so that the accumulated electricity cost is the lowest. Here in Germany, it’s science fiction; there, it’s lived reality. Hard to believe...