I had mentally already included the extension on the upper floor. If I’m not mistaken, you have a height of 1.70 m in the middle of the room.
Just to clarify the terms: an extension would be placing a complete additional storey and, in my estimation, here then with a new roof structure. With a knee wall to just raise the roof and/or have it slope more gently, I see this rather unlikely due to structural reasons.
Of course, if everything is being opened up anyway, I would run Cat-6 cables in parallel and bundle them in a large VLAN-capable switch. [...] Further extending the house is therefore also out of the question, since otherwise the 16m privilege in Bavaria would no longer apply. Here the eaves height from the natural ground boundary applies, right?
Without knowing the Bavarian 16m privilege in detail: I don’t understand your reference to the ground surface edge in this context. Incidentally, "VLAN" is a term from modern times – but you will only get this property modernized to the standard of 1990 with reasonable effort. In this respect, in my opinion, you are in the wrong mindset or are clearly undertaking a renovation for personal interest. Talking to the neighbors about their experiences strikes me as the most sensible idea in this whole scenario. Whether a new building could be positioned significantly differently, I mark with a question mark. This could be opposed by “factual building envelopes” – that is, the zone indicating how far the neighboring buildings are set back from the street.