House Purchase - Complicated Situation

  • Erstellt am 2021-03-17 09:15:36

Gerddieter

2021-03-18 00:47:59
  • #1
Phew, quite a tough discussion. I don’t understand the big overall problem... Where is it written that you have to work towards a symmetrical distribution of a possibly potential inheritance during your lifetime? And preferably also grow old modestly so that as much as possible remains...

Daddy can do whatever he wants with his property! And if he wants you to move in, then just do it! Did the others also get the theoretical offer to move in - sure, they just don’t want to because they already have something or live elsewhere. Just do it if the owner wants. And what’s left at the end gets divided and not before! I’ll consider your perspective – you’d be crazy to rent and then when it’s inherited, the others come and kick you out because you can’t pay the asked price. So buy if possible... Best regards GD
 

K1300S

2021-03-18 04:56:26
  • #2
Well, that would certainly not happen with my siblings, but every family is different. The OP has to know how it will work out for him.
 

HilfeHilfe

2021-03-18 05:55:10
  • #3
I would buy the house regularly, then there will be no stress with the siblings. The father can decide what he wants to do with his money.
 

Patblue

2021-03-18 07:12:29
  • #4


Both a) and b).

Good thought but an extension/annex to the house is unfortunately not possible, we had already considered that.
 

Patblue

2021-03-18 07:18:22
  • #5


Yes, exactly, that’s how I see it too and that’s how it is in reality.

If there were a way in which everyone would be equal as of now, I would of course choose it immediately—but unfortunately there isn’t.
Therefore, I am looking for a way to manage the whole thing reasonably fairly nonetheless.
 

Yaso2.0

2021-03-18 07:58:47
  • #6


There will be no way, because in some form someone will always feel disadvantaged.

In my opinion, the cleanest way is if you buy the house at the appraised value directly and father uses the money as he wishes.

Maybe he will give his children something in advance that you can add to your equity.

Sooner or later, otherwise, the topic will always come up again, even between siblings..
 
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