kati1337
2023-05-12 09:24:20
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Having children and building a house at the same time doesn't have to be mutually exclusive. When I built my first house, I had a tiny baby and was on parental leave. And as luck would have it, I now have another tiny baby during the current house construction and am on parental leave again. It all depends on the specific numbers. Unfortunately, the current figures are much less in your favor compared to two years ago. We were still able to finalize the financing with a 2% repayment rate so that we could manage well even during parental leave. Then with a bit less buffer for savings and reserves for that one year. P.S.: Don’t forget, saving doesn’t stop after building the house. Houses aren’t brand new forever. For us, there was still a 2 before the decimal point, whereas with current financing applications it’s probably more like a 4. We wouldn’t finance to the same extent under today’s conditions. The bank would probably still approve it, and we also have a slightly larger household net income than you do even during parental leave (we’re also a few years older). But I wouldn’t sleep well with that. I’m not a fan of the blanket “no more than 30% of net income for the house” rule. I think that neither applies to very tight incomes (there it could already be too much), nor to very high incomes (if I earn 8k net, my living costs don’t necessarily increase proportionally). Our financing is structured so that we still manage well during parental leave—the belt is a bit tighter, but it’s not choking yet. And when I go back to part-time work, things look quite relaxed again. Potential salary increases and such are not included in this calculation. That’s only somewhat sensible anyway. Nowadays, you no longer pay off financing after 20 years, not even on paper. And if more salary comes in, I’d rather use it to become debt-free faster. Who wants to pay off a large loan until shortly before retirement (or even beyond)? Statements like “we’re financing today on the edge, the higher salary later will fix it” I consider dangerous.