Which wastewater pump you need to use can be told to you by the city or the wastewater yard/lower water authority. If you have pressure pipes, you are quickly at 5000€ for the pump (including installation).
You can get a building surveyor through the Bauherren-Schutzbund for 1500 (7 inspections).
For the surveying, calculate a bit more. Usually, the rough staking is not included, and that costs around 300€.
Then cautiously add a few thousand to the connections, so that the gas connection is included. Depending on the length of the line, that can quickly become expensive.
Check with the lower water authority how infiltration is regulated in your area. Depending on how pedantic they are, you may only be allowed to make one infiltration basin and you have to have it done by a professional. Again, this means costs.