Where does your insight come from about how to position spots correctly so that it doesn't look like in a fashion store? If this information catches on, it might be possible to avoid that in the future
There are specialist forums for that. Just read up on it. In general, one can say: small spots (no matter how many degrees) should never be used for primary lighting, as the light is always relatively sharply defined and does not illuminate the upper part of the room.
Nevertheless, we are installing almost 40 spots throughout the house... but not for the main lighting. For that, high-quality LED panels (round) are used that provide very even and soft illumination. We illuminate the living room exclusively indirectly via LED strips and do without a "normal" lamp. With 23 watts per meter, that is feasible.
So far, of course, all theory... in a few months I will know how it works... then I can give some feedback. Whether my way is perfect... I tend to doubt it... but I am making a great effort.