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2019-01-03 13:43:40
- #1
TE acquired the house for a purchase price of 115K + the father's right of residence registered in the land register.
That the 115K€ then only went to the mother, he doesn’t have to care about that, that really is a divorce issue of the parents.
No no no, it doesn't have to be that simple or even that way.
Possibly the TE only bought the mother's ideal half, then there would be no registered right of residence at all.
From how everything reads here, a lot is vague and in my opinion, some things just don’t work that way.
In the end, it is always two different things: the one who pays and the one who gets the bill. That seems a bit mixed up here and is not seen very clearly...
That is not ill will towards the father,
But you do get the feeling that the son, that is you dear TE, was made a plaything – as long as the parents come out clean.
My advice: gather everything together, go to some help and organize it. Then: where is the journey supposed to go and with whom? What must and what can be done (-> land register)
Concrete solutions and defined statements, of course also towards the father.
You are not responsible for your parents!
Be careful not to let the tasks overwhelm you. You have to get moving yourself.