Do you have €280,000 for 125 sqm (with the mentioned extras?) including incidental construction costs?
that's right. we paid a total of €340,000 for the house – €63,000 net land costs (without notary, etc.). that makes just under €280,000 for the house including incidental costs and all the mentioned extras. for €80,000 apart from the incidental costs there are already some nice extras included. we basically took everything you can add as fun extras. no trade went to standard :)
125 sqm is not a big house, correct. but it can be sufficient for 4 people, including an office on the ground floor. a children's room with 15-17 sqm is not "barely acceptable." do they all probably come from wealthy families?! as a child, I had an 8 sqm room without heating, later 12 sqm with heating (at 16 years old). I think 15 sqm is quite decent. of course, it can gladly be 20 sqm or more, but that has to be paid for as well. you can fit a bedroom of almost 14 sqm perfectly (3-meter wardrobe, 2x2 meter bed and 70-80 cm circulation space on each side of the bed (except the head side)); more would basically be a waste since you only use it for sleeping. or you use the room for other things (office/retreat room).
instead of many expensive extras, you can of course also easily build 30 sqm more. electrical shutters out, fireplace out, ventilation system out and suddenly 20-30 sqm more space is possible.