Just for orientation: Under our house, which is 15x15.5m, we had to take out one meter and then add a total of 2 meters of fill. In addition, there is the 100 sqm driveway, and the excavation went into the garden. We ended up at 25k. Are you the only ones sitting in the depression and the neighbors around are up? With such a strong level difference, I would almost build a basement. We were also advised to do so, but we absolutely did not want a basement. The area under the house and the driveway is filled with gravel. If allowed, RCL gravel (requires approval). The garden should have fill soil and on top of that a thick layer of topsoil.