How about cream/light blue combined? Or a delicate turquoise? Basically, all shades of blue have a calming effect.
However, with our new house, we are breaking the mold: we will design the bedroom in white with some silver gray and otherwise 2-3 berry tones. We found a very beautiful non-woven wallpaper with these colors and will wallpaper one wall, paint the knee wall in color, and paint a nice climbing vine tattoo in [Brombeere] on the slope. For this, aubergine-colored or gray bedding, all furniture in white.