Vacant lot vs. new development area - how to decide?

Have you ever thought that your children* could become better people if they are shown everyday life as normal with people from other groups? They automatically make friends in daycare and school. *and from you

Have you gone mad? With other people....? Strangers?

You watch too much TV. The mentioned type of houses mainly attracts fearless Poles without any list dogs and grill fetish – but friendly, down-to-earth, and with two left hands – so low-maintenance neighbors whose housewives don’t hold "Best Bitch forever" contests. And Marek is even allowed to join in.

I would take the Poles immediately.

Then show them here sometime. That way the discussion can be based on a qualified foundation.

Not necessary for me, as there is no need for advice on this matter anymore. The floor plan is set, the roof shape, the orientation… everything is already fixed. If I really have questions, I turn to the architect in our family. The only thing still occupying us now is the question of whether to build something cheaper in the village center or something more expensive in the remote new development area. The opinions and experiences of building families like or , who were in a similar situation, help me significantly more than those who now want to reopen and question the entire planning. Still, thanks for the willingness.

I would really look at what offers you the most quality of life, if both are affordable.

that the older houses (estimated to be from the 20s/30s) around could attract a certain clientele with a later change of ownership, next to whom we would only reluctantly want to live...

....Those who will move in there later think similarly about you. They don’t differ from each other at all.

Well, what I have observed quite often: Either the "whatever the last price" faction here in the countryside buys such old houses, or those who wash their car on Saturday afternoon in sweatpants and a vest with loud blaring radio, have a thing for "list dogs," and fire up the smoky charcoal grill at every single ray of sunshine, if you know what I mean.

No, at least I don’t know what you mean by that. Why don’t you call it by its name, why so secretive?

I would take the Polish person immediately.

Bad news for you. A decent Polish homeowner might not want to live next to you because he judges just as suspiciously and stigmatizingly. On the other hand, you could also be lucky, because Polish people are generally considered very friendly beings.

It’s not meant to sound arrogant

It doesn’t just sound like that..........happy neighborhood-

Building gap... All arguments have already been mentioned.

My personal experience shows that short distances are a great luxury. We bought an old property. The neighbors are elderly people of retirement age. In total, 3 older couples directly next door. They are really great. The children can play, talk with the neighbors, no one really annoys anyone. Problems are briefly discussed and that's it. The children also have fun. The kindergarten is just around the corner, the elementary school too. So it’s faster to walk than to get the car out of the garage. For shopping, we go to Penny on the other side of the street. I don’t remember the last time I went shopping by car. Before, we lived just under 2 km away. There, the car was used much more often to go shopping or to kindergarten. You always think 2 km is not a distance. That’s true. But quickly grabbing milk or taking the children in the morning is then done rather by car.