: Hmm, I see it differently. We are here as a layperson forum to help the OP and exchange opinions on the situation he presented. In this respect, we cannot act as a "High Court" to determine the true facts based on evidence and witness statements and then pass judgment, but we rely on and, in my opinion, are obliged to believe the OP's account. Opinion of course also means that one can believe the OP is fibbing. However, doing so without any corresponding indication is not very constructive. The trend of the statements here also seemed very one-sided to me, which is why I pointed out that at least the architect's behavior, according to the account, was not acceptable. But yes, I also think that the OP ultimately has to pay the bill. However, I find his resentment understandable and do not respond to it with the implicit condescension that some others here show.