I’m sorting myself out again
I’m beginning to understand. Since your sauna hut remains under 30m³ in volume, is not a living room (the Finns see that differently), and an electric stove is not considered a fireplace, it is exempt from approval according to §63 Annex I 1.1 HBO.
Unlike in NRW, the state building code in Hesse does not grant such buildings any privilege regarding setback areas. Since in your case mainly neighborhood and not public interests are affected, the authority waives a public-law securing of setback areas according to §6 paragraph 2 no. 2. Instead, it seeks approval of a deviation according to §73 HBO. To simplify the official process, it requires the provision of the neighbor’s consents according to §71 paragraph 2.
Because he couldn’t really explain it to me properly.
Then he should try explaining it again. What exactly does he intend to achieve with the land register entry? To me, only an easement is conceivable, which burdens his property and benefits yours. If he does not intend to regularly derive claims from it—which by the way would have to be formulated separately—IMHO the registration only brings disadvantages. The building authority’s proposal is the simplest and most cost-effective solution for all involved; disadvantage: your right is initially not visible, as it only lies dormant in your building file. Neither access to the building encumbrance register nor to the land register reveals it. In 20 years, this could lead to misunderstandings.
I should contact the building authority
What are you supposed to do there? He would have to have it explained to him there.
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Difficult. You want a signature from him. He only gives it under an incomprehensible and not further explained condition. The only solution is probably to talk, clarify, explain, and avoid misunderstandings.