Depending on where you live in Hesse, you might want to consider a trip to Berlin (you can combine it with a short vacation ).
There is a pretty good ventilation office there where you can listen to 4 or 5 different decentralized systems installed in actual conditions.
We found the consultation there to be very good and insightful, and although we live on the other side of Germany, we then ordered our decentralized system there (of course, only when we needed it).
Of course, they will also create a ventilation concept and a cost estimate for you based on your plans (we received this by email).
In my opinion, no one can answer your questions exactly here, because everyone also has a subjective perception (e.g., regarding noise).