Do you mean that the greater density of the wall with its outriggers (its "weight") increases the pressure downward so much that the moving soil presses against and locks onto the immobile part of the ground?
No. I mean that gravity also applies to the neighbor’s soil. It will never move only onto your property, but always also downwards. In doing so, it presses on the horizontal L-leg (or here the outriggers). Their connection with the horizontal leg in turn strengthens it and "holds" it.
The site manager and an engineer working alongside the construction explained it differently to me. He drew me the following sketch:
I know the phenomenon that, with a "four" in physics, the opposite can initially (and possibly even significantly longer) seem more convincing - including for myself. The engineer’s explanation is what one calls "pseudo-logical." In fact, in an experiment set up that way, the horizontal L-leg would only be loaded on the weaker side, which is less than equivalent and does not contribute to "victory." The L-stones would be pushed crookedly and upwards.
But that is the beauty of physics: it works reliably even if you do not understand it (or do not wait for it to be understood). It works immediately.
My construction company just told me that they will not approach the wall with earthworks closer than one meter because they fear the stuff will fall over
The wall part with the garden does not worry me. From the wall part with the garage above, I possibly expect several centimeters of wall tilt per decade, and even that only if the terrain on the neighbor’s side starts to slip. As long as no heavy rain undercuts the garage, I don’t see that happening. Of course without guarantee, but also without fear.