Only from BHW financing, how can that be???

I really feel terribly sorry for you. It's also very unfair to just bash and say: we told you so... how long ago was the signature? What exactly did you sign? Maybe the situation can somehow be salvaged...

I really feel terribly sorry for you. It's also very unfair to just bash and say: we told you so... how long ago was the signature? What exactly did you sign? Maybe the situation can somehow be salvaged...

Yes, it's no problem Milo3, I am grateful for the feedback otherwise I wouldn't have written here. The signature was on 29.01 so unfortunately it’s already passed. But a lawyer is involved and we have an appointment on Monday. Now we have to keep our fingers crossed.

The signature was on 29.01 so unfortunately it was already over.

Please check the contract documents to see when the withdrawal period begins and whether you have received any instructions about it.

You have to understand one thing, and that makes it deadly serious, it doesn't matter at all to a merciless organization like the BBW, and they are completely merciless, whether you manage the loan or not. They will squeeze you dry, then grab the house and sell it through their real estate agency, you will then be homeless and in debt until the grave, they will still have their money, and they don't care at all. That's how they operate. Try to save what can be saved. Karsten

BHW sells a shitty loan to everyone, really EVERYONE, regardless of feasibility. Make sure you somehow get out of the house construction contract. With your income, building a house at the current construction prices is not possible.

Thank you very much for your quick and honest answers. As the saying goes, you learn from mistakes. As mentioned, a lawyer has been involved. The only good thing about it, and hopefully to our advantage, is that fortunately my mother-in-law was present on that day. So, have a nice evening and a great weekend. Of course, I will keep you updated.

The only good thing about it, and hopefully to our advantage on that day, was that thank God my mother-in-law was present.

And what exactly is that supposed to achieve/state/mean? Besides the fact that unfortunately you don’t have a mother-in-law who would drag you out of the room by your earlobe before you do such shice? However, something here makes me wonder if there are holidays somewhere. (The fact that not even the amount of child benefit is correct is only partly true…)