Prefabricated/solid house? Solid offers better soundproofing and a more valuable house.
Which heating? Geothermal? Air heat pump? Important here also is, what will the electricity costs be? We want low additional costs.
Ventilation system necessary? Central/decentralized? Is ventilating through the windows sufficient?
Photovoltaics? Is it worth it? Probably only with storage?
Soundproofing is possible with all types of construction when it matters.
Heating recommendation: refrain from fossil fuels – the technology is available and affordable enough to take some responsibility.
Low additional costs may mean upfront investments – you have to do some calculations or simply buy the good feeling of the future.
Ventilation system – I don’t think much of living in a (warning: massive exaggeration!) “technically permanently drafty, air-conditioned Tupperware box.” Occasionally opening a window still seems practical to me.
Regarding photovoltaics and storage, you will hear all opinions here, some of them dogmatically stated. We did not see the photovoltaic system solely as a profit center, but as an integral part of the house that contributes to the overall value or not.
Don’t think of your house primarily as a building with technology but as a shell for your life. What is important to you, how do you like to live, what makes your life… Thinking from the inside out is a good approach if you can start from “zero.” With these thoughts, you go to providers and architects. Those who understand may continue talking with you. Others will not be able to help you.