Hi,
Just fresh from the notary, I want to emphasize right away that every case must be considered individually etc. And what is best for one person and what is best for others, everyone has to know for themselves.
We have almost the same problem as the initial post, only that we don’t have a property yet. But one has a lot of equity while the other has none.
The notary showed us 2 ways that would be best for us.
1: Before the loan is signed, we calculate how much % each person will eventually pay and write these ownership % into the land register.
2: You could register what one person has more as a land charge.
We both would have to make a will, the disadvantage is the inheritance tax that would be due upon death. (But maybe an idea to bridge the time until you get married)
Regarding gift tax, he said that in option 1 no one would receive a gift, but I will have that checked again by the tax consultant in 2 weeks.
What is best for you or others, everyone has to know for themselves or find out through individual advice.