Is buying a house at all possible with our income?

So if the savings rate is €100 and you then want to finance a house and incidental costs and a child. No way

I basically think that the regional rental prices and the cost development of the land are also relevant here and you have to consider various factors.

For example, we with two children would pay at least 300 more per month if we move - which will be in 3 years at the latest - rather more.
Here we do not even remotely reach the living standard like with the upcoming house construction.
The rent for this would certainly be significantly higher than the loan installment.

We would also have liked to have built up more reserves, but now we have received a discounted plot of land in the new development area, which is without alternative in our region.
I also don't have to tear apart our son including his circle of friends - although children here are not as inflexible as we are.

If the land prices are still reasonable with you it may be different...

I don't have to tear apart our son including his circle of friends like that either

Well, that reassures me *pant*

Well, that puts me at ease *pant*

One must always consider the whole picture; some arguments are not decisive, but still not insignificant.
I consider a list of pros and cons at least important.

...that there is a lack of empathy towards children here in the forum has already struck me.

...that there is a lack of empathy towards children in this forum has already struck me.

??? Here, 94% of the active users have and/or want 2 children. At least 50% of them get their own bathroom... Isn't that empathy enough?

Above all, it is the longing for clean children....stupid, we ate sand, and the new ones with their own bathroom get allergies