May I ask which application areas you use today and would use again. I am currently dealing with the topic myself and am still trying to find out which areas I find useful for us.
It started for me with heating thermostats, as I was often on business trips or away over the weekend and wanted timed temperature control. Quickly, a few light switches were added (wireless switches for the bed so you don’t have to get up to turn off the light; additional lights for the home cinema room, dimmers for the living and dining room). For the Christmas lighting, there were also switched sockets and an outdoor temperature sensor.
But the system only really became smart for me through the use of Mediola and the Logitech hub, which I have been using since last year. Via tablet and smartphone, I can now automate many things (turning on TV, receiver, and AVR, dimming the lights, automatic dynamic reduction and volume adjustment at certain times), lowering temperatures when on vacation including automatic adjustment on the day of arrival, higher temperatures in the living room and guest bathroom when visitors come. Absence light control during vacation, email notification when the washing machine is finished, ambient lighting in the living room and bathroom through combination with Philips Hue. Notification when leaving the apartment if lights are on or windows are open. In addition, I have the cheapest fuel prices visualized as well as local weather data. Currently, I am working on a visualization of my calendar.
Much is play, but also some comfort. A motion detector serves as a mini alarm system when away, and I can check and control the status of my devices worldwide via VPN. So theoretically I can switch the washing machine or TV on and off.