Hello,
Regarding the probation period, to my knowledge, regulations > 6 months are initially legally ineffective.
You can believe that in church
The law
basically does not specify a fixed duration for employment relationships. The regulations on the probation period and its duration can be found in applicable collective agreements. Only these provisions must be observed; provided they do not violate good faith.
An extension of the probation period is also only possible by mutual agreement. Since I am not a lawyer, I could well be wrong here; I've never had such a case...
Theoretically yes, in practice it is more like the employee will not refuse an extension because he wants to keep his job.
Regarding the need for renovation, the advertising must also meet certain standards.
You complain about half-baked statements and yourself do not act any better? What is that statement above supposed to mean? E & V is a highly reputable broker and follows no standards except those to sell the entrusted property as well and as quickly as possible. Promoting beautiful pictures is just as much part of that as giving out only partial information as initial info. These beautiful pictures have proven effective because the detailed view is often lost.
Otherwise, I basically see things similarly to you, but the negativity is a bit too much even for me.
You are 28 years young and – I have to admit that to you – anything but equipped with negative self-confidence. That doesn’t change the fact that you have to work on your income, the lack of equity, the desire to have children soon, and your naivety regarding "reading and understanding" real estate offers.
I have not been doing my job just since yesterday and therefore know the pitfalls regarding the purchase of existing property. Even if you can come up with the purchase price, later there will be a lack of capital for renovation. The purpose of financing should be, in my understanding, to “at least” cover the most urgent renovation expenses with a loan. You probably also underestimate the costs/consequences that a small child entails. Therefore, I would like to strongly advise you to actually visit a preferred property with an expert and take his arguments and statements regarding renovation costs to heart. Then, in my opinion, much of your current understanding regarding the purchase of an existing property will be relativized.
I will spare you the topic of a multi-family house because that involves more than just buying, renovating, and renting out. You should have a clarifying talk with a trusted tax advisor about this, including how required reserves can be formed.
One more word about the banker friend with managerial duties. Yours truly worked years ago for the three largest banks in the country; in the 1980s, such “friendly favors” were still possible; although, strangely enough, banks always ended up being the beneficiaries in the end. Today that no longer happens, the audit—especially after the recent crash—gives them hell. Please don’t forget that; even if you want the good friend to keep her job.
Rhineland greetings