Therefore, I would definitely always also contact banks directly in parallel, not just a single broker.
Thank you very much for the warning. We will take that into consideration.
I can warmly recommend Gerd Kommer’s book: Immobilienkauf und Finanzierung für Selbstnutzer.
Thank you very much for the tip! Ordered immediately.
The long-term returns are very modest despite the last very good 10 years and, in your situation with experience in stocks, are very likely not financially advantageous.
Is renting a house at all an option for you?
Buying vs renting is actually already decided for us.
That the owner-occupied home is a capital investment is a nice side effect for us. The home is certainly not a top earner, but here our primary motivation comes into play:
We want to settle into a house, make it nice, shape it ourselves, decide for ourselves. For that, we consciously and gladly spend the money, of course as optimized as possible. We actually already had a rental house. We were served a notice citing personal use when it was sold (we were not ready yet). That was not a nice experience.
I also don’t believe that with our wishes (we will probably invest further into the property after purchase) we will achieve a positive result from an investment perspective, at least not better than our other assets.
Actually, this is not our primary concern. Here we are fulfilling a dream. I personally at some point stopped living my life primarily for optimized returns (i.e., spending almost nothing). You only live once.
Today it is a balance: I allow myself the things I really want. I check whether wishes are “real” by not fulfilling them immediately.
The issue of buying a house has been simmering between both of us for some time. Now the time has come.