Hello,
I absolutely do not see in this thread that the OP was forced into a defensive position.
Perhaps would like to say something about whether he felt that way?
Of course, it is not nice when one's own work mostly "gets" critical remarks, but it is up to the person asking whether they consider the (mostly well-intentioned) comments or prefer to stick to their unchanged draft.
However, when a draft is posted here, I have always expressed my personal, honest opinion, since the questioners specifically asked for it.
That was also the case in 2013 / 2014 for me when I made my first "attempts" here in the forum and had to accept quite a bit of justified criticism for our amateur planning.
If no one had pointed out one or the other "awkward corner" in the house back then (based on their own experience), we would probably be annoyed almost daily today about some of the planned "nonsense."
Today I am grateful for the often clear statements at that time, as they undoubtedly helped us massively to build our dream house.
Therefore:
: If my remarks actually "brought you down," as claimed: That was by no means my intention – I think I can speak for most of the people writing here with this statement.
Regards,
Dirk