Hello,
I absolutely do not see in this thread that the OP was forced into a defensive attitude.
Maybe would like to say something about whether he felt that way?
Of course, it is not nice when one’s own work mostly receives critical remarks, but it is up to the person asking the question whether they want to consider the (mostly well-meaning) suggestions or stick to their unchanged draft.
However, when a draft is posted here, I have always given my personal, honest opinion because the questioners have specifically asked for it.
That was also the case for me in 2013/2014 when I made my first "attempts" here in the forum and had to take some justified criticism for our amateur plans.
If we had not been pointed out to one or the other "odd corner" in the house back then (from our own experiences), we would probably be annoyed almost daily today about some planned "nonsense."
Today I am thankful for the often frank statements back then, as they undoubtedly helped us immensely in building our dream house.
Therefore:
: If my comments actually “brought you down,” as suggested, that was definitely not my intention – I think with this statement I can speak for most of the people writing here.
Best regards,
Dirk