I don’t see it that way, philosophical doesn’t have to mean meaningless. Even if for the OP "the train seems to have left the station," it helps others who are currently dealing with it as input. But even for the OP, a confirmation or, from my side, praise (well done) can be motivating.
For the questioner, it’s not particularly great either if he now finds out that he could have come out significantly better. It’s some kind of fairy tale that the prices offered online do not also apply if you go there. If the bank advertises €100,000 at 1% with 50% loan-to-value ratio, then this 1% is also available (or better) — or none at all if the bank refuses. But what arguments should the bank have to worsen its offer? Collateral? That was already clearly specified beforehand? Creditworthiness? Either one is creditworthy or not. Default risks are already factored in via the loan-to-value and interest rates. We went through loan inquiries last year and experienced that NO bank gave a worse offer than what they advertised online/flyers etc.
And regarding the interest rate: more important than the last few decimal points after the comma is the general approach to handling the transaction. We were offered 1.9% over 25 years at the Allianz, but they wanted invoice copies for every €5 bill from the authority, exact payment schedules, and above all that the money then be transferred directly to the construction company with delays (the dunning fees, of course, remain with the contract partner, so with yourself...). We then decided to conclude with the local Sparkasse, which only wanted €200,000 to be documented out of our €270,000 loan (which exactly corresponded to the house price at the construction company – so I only had to send the Sparkasse the installment invoices by email). The money was transferred to our own account and I could pay every invoice myself. The remaining €70,000 could then also be freely spent somehow in the house for samples, kitchen, outdoor facilities, incidental construction costs etc. We found this way of placing trust in us very decent. In the end, after moving in, the broker stopped by briefly and wanted a few documents (cadastral survey plan, confirmation from the construction company that everything was paid, and some little stuff...) and then he was gone. If we now always pay punctually, we will not see each other again for 20 years.