Yes, I know all that myself as well. I just thought that maybe someone might have an idea or had a similar problem.
Only the cherry laurel can grow in our soil. It is otherwise quite undemanding, but since it loses leaves every year, it will hardly become dense.
It was a nursery from Hungary. Actually, they have a great rating and I was very satisfied with the service overall (they had exchanged some without problems at the beginning). Unfortunately, they did not take a soil sample and just delivered, planted, fertilized the hedges and that was it. I was supposed to wait for the rest, but after 3 years they should have settled in somewhat....