Then he has to ask the neighbors. I do consider the meter sensible. It must not be less, unlike in NRW, in Lower Saxony.
It is simply nonsense to keep 1 meter free at the border just because you want to paint a few beams every 10 years. That is a hell of a lot of property that you still have to maintain unnecessarily.
As I said for the third time: coordinate with the neighbors on how you agree there. Above all, clarify whether you want to set one border row of "stones" together or if everyone cooks their own soup (less sensible, since everyone loses 20 cm and then you have a 2x15 cm gap between the properties). If you set one row of "stones," they stand exactly on the border and are concreted on both sides. Additional advantages: you can share the costs.
If you want to close the carport side to the neighbor with boards and the like, the neighbor does not need a hedge or similar there. He might make a flowerbed or something there. To then paint once in 10 years, you agree that you paint before he makes the flowerbed. I would not want to give up 9x1 meter for that. That’s like always driving a sprinter because you move furniture from A to B once every 5 years.