Hello everyone,
thank you again for your answers and opinions.
You are all right, financially it will certainly not be a walk in the park.
However, we are aware of this and know what is coming our way.
Currently, we are already paying about €1300 warm for rent (about 100m²) and manage very well with that.
Surely a house will bring higher costs, and the monthly repayment costs of €1455 also include ongoing energy costs, garbage collection, etc.
However, I do not see any reason to keep renting for years and throw money out the window.
My girlfriend was gifted the building plot, and in my opinion, right now there is no better time interest-wise to build a house.
As I’ve already written, I will inherit real estate in the foreseeable future, a total of two houses and one apartment, which will certainly be worth €500,000, so we will tackle the house building project now.
We could also wait and build in 10-20 years. But our NOW exists and not in 20 years.
Construction costs are also rising year by year and it won’t get cheaper.
Since we will only build once, we will not make any compromises in terms of equipment.
I can understand some comments from you very well, others not at all.
For example:
Ich will dir ja wirklich nicht den Spaß nehmen, aber :
3000,00 € im Monat für zwei Personen + Kind, 1.500,00 Tilgung ( was auch nicht reicht ), wohnhaft im Münchner Vorort mit "bekannt günstigen Lebenshaltungskosten" und dann glaubst du auch noch an Sondertilgung ? Entweder du hast noch Einnahmequellen, die du uns verschwiegen hast oder es geht echt ins Auge.
--> I never claimed that I "believe" in special repayments. I said it would be nice... However, I am aware that it will be difficult.
Jetzt ist aber noch kein Kind da und deine Freundin hat noch volles Gehalt. Und auch noch keine neues Haus, wo dies noch fehlt und das noch müßte.
--> We both have €4000 gross monthly with full salary. The €3000 is already calculated including part-time salary.
Wir haben im Münchener Umland (noch so gerade mit MVV-Anbindung) 350,- € / Monat für einen Krippenplatz bezahlt. Meine Kollegin in München hat 800,- € bezahlt.
--> I never said that we would put the child in a nursery. My girlfriend can work part-time. During the rest of the time our child can be looked after by 2 grandmas. Also, part-time can be arranged due to shift work so that someone is there in the morning and someone in the afternoon.
Mich wundert, dass ihr eure Finanzierung auf beide Einkommen plant. Meines(laienhaften) Wissens nach, sollte es über ein Einkommen abgedeckt werden um spätere Veränderungen mitabzudecken.
Deine Freundin vllt länger zu Hause bleiben muss bei den Kindern oder so
--> It would be nice if the financing could be covered by one income. But it doesn’t work. My girlfriend cannot stay at home alone either; she has to work at least part-time. We are also aware of that and do not see it as a problem.
There is also child benefit, and if we get married, there will be more net income again.
Thank you very much
Peter