Just to clarify quickly, I am not comparing with a smaller rental apartment but with a comparable property to my own home, even if such a thing is probably very hard to find on the market right now.
I believe you must not ignore the interest rates, as they are actually the main cost factor and vary greatly depending on the financing. Some pay 30,000 euros in interest over the term and others 250,000 euros, and they haven't financed a higher value but perhaps simply less equity or a higher interest rate. So you really can't leave that out, especially since this, alongside the personal contribution, is the only lever you can really adjust to lower the price.
As for material costs and labor hours, you currently have slim chances.