Building as a single, marriage, and prenuptial agreement

2020-08-09 20:26:08

Lack of money for living is a curse. If there is enough to live on, please don't take it so seriously.

So it's no money left and one is "cursed"? Striking logic.

2020-08-09 20:32:35

Oh come on - the money does come after [ ] - for civil servants even with quite some certainty. It’s not logic but life experience. Go through the moments that have truly enriched your life and still resonate today. How many of them were determined by money or logic?

2020-08-09 20:39:33

Mostly through experiences that might have occurred in homelessness without money.

2020-08-10 09:18:29

: Of course I don't mean that. It's complete nonsense to want to remember experiences that would have happened if... Those are not experiences as such.

2020-08-10 13:14:39

Try not to see it in such a harshly logical way. A prenuptial agreement makes sense for you to capture the initial assets. Maybe adjust it again in a few years and that's it. The risk that one of you will adopt a different (financial) lifestyle is simply something you accept and should minimize before marriage. In our case: We have 2 children, I am paying off the house, my husband pays for food, fuel, etc. We are both registered 50/50. However, I put 50k into the house (the money came from my parents) and we will appropriately include that in the contract. It will also state that I get to keep the house and the children stay with me. It is clear to both of us that I can pay him out, but that is not a problem. The rest is part of the marital risk for us and encourages us to work on our marriage. My husband recently started smoking - the stupid idiot! - and spends quite a bit of money on that, plus decorates his skin with countless tattoos. I don’t like it, but that wouldn’t be a reason to cover this financial loss in a prenuptial agreement. I’ll get my revenge by forcing him to implement my Pinterest garden ideas.

2020-08-10 14:12:50

Try not to see it in a completely coldly logical way. A prenuptial agreement makes sense for you to record the starting assets. Possibly adjust it again in a few years and that’s it. You simply take the risk that one of you will adopt a different (financial) lifestyle and should minimize that risk before marriage. In our case: We have 2 children, I pay off the house, my husband pays for food, fuel, etc. We are both registered 50/50. However, I put 50k into the house (money came from my parents) and we will include that accordingly in the contract. It will also state that I am allowed to keep the house and the children stay with me. It’s clear to both of us that I am allowed to buy him out, but that is not a problem. The rest belongs to the marital risk for us and encourages us to work on our marriage. My husband recently started smoking – that stupid idiot! – and burns quite a bit of money on that and also decorates his skin with countless tattoos. I don’t like it, but that wouldn’t be a reason to cushion this financial loss in a prenuptial agreement. I’ll get my revenge by forcing him to implement my Pinterest garden ideas.

Be careful with child custody arrangements. Courts quickly discard such clauses and thus entire contracts. You should definitely seek thorough advice on that.

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