Ben-man
2020-07-20 10:32:04
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Yes, but certainly not in this forum.Well, with that idea you could start your own thread, couldn't you?
That may be true, but there is a difference between someone asking for help and someone being forced unwanted help, and that has happened several times here in this thread."Marriage counseling" certainly doesn't harm anyone, especially or precisely when building/buying a house. If some had gone there a bit earlier, not so many houses would be resold today and livelihoods auctioned off (as in the thread).
But that does not automatically qualify every random internet user as a therapist. I would be glad if this forum would simply address the actual questions of the thread starters instead of always posting some know-it-all answers. And no, this is not specifically aimed at you, there are a whole bunch of users here who do this. It seems to have become the standard here over the last few years and unfortunately causes those seeking help, just like in this thread, to avoid the forum again after a few days. Then it is no wonder that in a forum where over 100 registered users are online at the same time around the clock, only a handful of posts are created every day.Some even happened to meet their partner by chance at a first consultation appointment, who had been going there longer and with good reason........or the sad fact was simply communicated without such counseling in the usual way by registered letter.-