I find it completely legitimate to install conventional electrical wiring with a switch program in a new building and retrofit it later as a "comfort layer" with radio solutions.
With radio, it would be important to know the "quasi-standard." Similar to music formats, where STEREO was and probably still is the most future-proof format, with radio it would be: Zigbee??? Enocean??? No idea, but it already helps if the radio signal is "standardized."
It is then also important to know the availability and compatibility of the actuators and central units. Likewise, the "software." I personally use a Raspberry Pi as "base hardware." Also with the background that in the future it will be easier to get replacement boards for this. Therefore, I would personally never use a NAS with virtualization etc. The guiding principle should also be here: "Keep it simple." For example, we have exhaust fans with built-in humidity sensors. At first, I absolutely wanted to control this myself, but now I am somehow "glad" that they turn on and off automatically. Regardless of whether a "central unit" is currently online or offline.
Only the idea of visualizing the status or actually switching manually could bring me to build a switching actuator in front of it.