Thank you for your feedback!
Yes, we are doing the outdoor facilities ourselves and we are also installing the fence ourselves. I already have an offer for a 80cm high [Stabmattenzaun] (approx. 60m with posts) about 3,500 EUR + concrete for the posts. The lawn will also be planted by ourselves and the terrace as well as the yard will be done by ourselves and only the material will be purchased.
I am increasing the house connection costs a bit in my calculation.
Regarding the earthworks: We need to create a level surface for the foundation slab and the garden should also be somewhat leveled. But probably no excavation needs to be taken to the landfill, everything can remain on the property. Hence the 18k. But I prefer to increase it to 20k.