If you include the lost living space, you’re easily over €2k there. Just see what makes sense from your point of view.
The €2k is the surcharge for the same stone thickness, only with improved insulating properties.
Take the 36.5, but definitely as a filled stone. Think about sound insulation and how porous these things are. That unfilled crap they’re trying to sell you nowadays only benefits the construction company because the stones are lighter and easier to work with! I myself have 42.5 unfilled.
This is about aerated concrete; the question of filling does not apply. But I agree with you, unfilled Poroton is the cheapest. Our shell builder had offered Poroton as an alternative, it would have been €2,000 cheaper and he had it in stock, but we preferred to wait for the sand-lime stone delivery. Even if you think you don’t want to do anything for soundproofing on the outside, it comes back to bite you at the latest with the interior walls, unless you live alone. The neighbor has 11–17 cm of Poroton as interior walls, that is really not acceptable. He’s now trying to fix it with solid wood doors.