Well, the OP has remained silent about the situation and the open questions since I brought it up.
I read from this:
craftsmanship is present (I renovated my grandfather's apartment and my parents' apartment together with my father and grandfather -
whether concreting, laying screed, electrical work, heating, water, sanitary, tiling, floors, windows or doors ... I was involved, we did most of it ourselves or with the help of acquaintances and friends from the specialist fields and we were assistants)
I had 2 part-time jobs during my studies and sacrificed my entire free time for 2 years to help my parents renovate the apartment - I tried everything that was possible within my scope)
From my parents, I would get an interest-free or low-interest loan from the savings for their retirement provision to improve the equity
My father told me that if I really wanted it, and a few ten thousand euros reduced the interest by one or two tenths, we could manage that.
But I do not assume that we are talking about a very large amount (maybe 50-70?)
... that money is not exactly so liquid that the parents just have money left over.
The OP is talking about a loan and not a gift.
It may be that for some it looks as if the parents are a method of upbringing – for me it reads as if one has to live frugally in order to have a little more later. And not “a little more” in order to indulge even more. The reason for the interest-free loan could be gratitude. All understandable.
But it is what it is.
There is no need to sugarcoat this here – unless the OP says how it could be more positive.