What do you think about our financial situation?

  • Erstellt am 2016-05-11 01:47:04

Madira

2016-05-11 09:15:06
  • #1
I am rather surprised about the "misogyny". Every person has had their good and bad experiences, but assuming in every random post where the man earns more than the woman that the woman is grabbing the house is somewhat extreme. Not all women are "lazy" and stop working or only work part-time after giving birth.
 

andimann

2016-05-11 10:22:56
  • #2
is now difficult to assess, but 2000 €/sqm for a house without a basement and 35 k€ for a garage seems very high to me. Or are they pretty luxury versions? The 40 k€ ancillary construction costs probably come from [Epis Liste], I suppose. It's always a question of what you include in that; in the end, it might only be 20 k€, especially if you build without a basement. But having some buffer is never wrong.

15 k€ will not be enough for the exterior facilities if you are already going the luxury route with the house and garage.

And regarding Che.guevara's comment: I wouldn't put it quite that harshly; in principle, the goal of a marriage is to stay together. At least for us. ;-) You should of course always consider arrangements, especially if the equity is very unevenly distributed. There are always unfair partners, on both sides.

We currently have a Hollywood-worthy divorce battle in the neighborhood, where "she" unfortunately fully fits the stereotype of Che.guevara and now wants to have "him" out of the house, cooooincidentally just after he finished the house and garden himself after three years of insane personal effort and actually had the audacity to demand a bit more free time and leisure for himself.. It’s really something, if it only involved the two of them, one could just set up a deck chair with popcorn in front of the house, better than any Dallas episode! Unfortunately, children are also involved who must now suffer greatly.

Note: Yes, there are men who are real idiots, but women are sometimes just as bad.

Best regards,

Andreas
 

Sascha aus H

2016-05-11 10:58:55
  • #3
Please let's not have another discussion about "bad women" or "bad men" in case of a divorce - there is already a thread that got blown up about that. :confused:
 

andimann

2016-05-11 11:02:19
  • #4
Hi,



Great, what am I supposed to do now with my popcorn? *munch* :-)

No, you're right. Back to topic please.

best regards,

Andreas
 

HilfeHilfe

2016-05-11 11:12:24
  • #5
yes, the topic of divorce is getting annoying by now
 

Che.guevara

2016-05-11 13:09:26
  • #6
Of course divorce is annoying, me too!

But it should simply be made clear again that the biggest problem in such situations is not a cost overrun or a significant change in interest rates but the separation.
 

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