that's a sliding door, right? In this case, there is no maximum width because it is fixed in the frame and not hanging on pivot-tilt bolts. I also find the sizes and positions okay as they are.
I would make the two single patio doors at the dining and couch areas fixed elements. No one will ever go through there, except the burglar.
We also have the kitchen window like that with an island in front. We made the island with 40cm cabinets on both sides, so the "bar" is 80cm thick and the countertop runs continuously as a windowsill. The window has a fixed lower part of about 30 cm, the upper part of the window can be opened. This way, you can also place bottles or herbs in front of the window and don’t always have to put them away.
Upstairs you have French balconies. Alternatively, there are also windows here with a fixed lower part. But this is an absolute optical matter of preference; sometimes I like the French balconies better (it doesn't look so bare), sometimes it looks like prison... depends on the day (we have a fixed part, you can display something for (children) there).