danibel
2024-03-29 13:55:58
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I am now in my early 60s and I would hardly be pleased if I were expected to enthusiastically move into such an 'apartment' and also be happy to look after the children for free, be seen as a free housekeeping help, etc. I have a very active social life; I like having guests, cook a lot, but have no desire to cater to children's wishes (like: today I am only eating pasta with butter (and at least 5 days a week) or some such nonsense.) I am not a cleaning lady, I have one.
STOP. This goes too far and is absolutely inappropriate. I have nothing to do with other forum posts and you know nothing about our living conditions and those of my mother, our "demands," ideas, and ways of life, whether we have a cleaning lady, nanny, or personal cook.
Congratulations on your active social life, I hope different manners are applied there than anonymously on the internet.
Honestly: many of these basement flat rooms, some of which don't even have a measly 240 cm ceiling height, face north or east, have no view & sun, no underfloor heating, etc., are an impertinence to expect one's own mother / mother-in-law to endure - and the old lady should then also be grateful for it!
Unbelievable. I will not comment further on this here.