I completely agree with you there, unfortunately the topic is often completely changed without any reference to the actual question.
I see this differently in this case, as the title is: "Criticism, Feedback, Suggestions...", so just bring on all your opinions.
I see the problem here more as clinging to one's own "dream," which I absolutely understand. Maybe at first you can't imagine that dreams simply change or adapt to their possibilities.
It is difficult, but as a home builder you should welcome open criticism, even if it goes against your previous dream. As soon as it becomes a battle of opinions, which you see here again and again, the outcome loses quality.
The repeatedly requested general contractor drafts could contribute to a constructive and goal-oriented discussion; it's not about good/bad.
So where are they.....?