So thanks for all the information! Regarding the wall, I will definitely inquire about the additional costs for 42.5cm PP2/0.35! To be honest, I still haven’t quite figured out the roof battens – but I also haven’t read the standards. As far as I understand, it’s more or less a structural question – and whether you choose a slightly stronger roof and counter batten or not probably doesn't affect the price that much. (The decisive factor at this point is probably the labor time – but correct me if I’m wrong).
One shouldn’t possibly forget that so far this is only a "budget offer" – therefore nothing concrete. He has probably saved work here and there by not calculating everything more precisely and may have only copied some descriptions. (The same applies to the prefab house providers as well). I still can’t explain the price difference of up to €100,000. Besides, the question remains whether you really have to put a "Porsche" of a house on a "cheap plot" or whether the "Golf" model might also do. (You never know if you might want to sell again someday).
Regarding the construction project, I’m calculating €300,000 for the house anyway (including own work, affordable doors and windows, etc.) and €350,000 for the entire construction project. (A buffer of €20,000 is available – but should not be touched if possible, as there are still development costs to be paid later).