Update from 09.05.2022:
This morning the first and so far only offer came in by email. The good thing upfront: the professionals plan the system pretty much exactly as I did without having talked about it beforehand. So that basically confirms my technical design :)
But now the downside: nearly 40k for a really manageable water management system I simply find extortionate. I have to say that clearly. Since I have dealt with the subject more than enough by now and the items in the offer are unambiguous to me, I can only shake my head. They are really trying to line their pockets heavily. I really have to be careful not to comment too emotionally now, but one thing really bothers me: "The wells become the property of the client after construction" means nothing other than: "If the neighboring houses sink into a hole or the street floods, that’s not our business and oh yeah, you also have to take care of the removal yourself or pay us handsomely for it." That’s not exactly inspiring trust in their work. Sure, no one can fully see underground, but if I hire professionals with self-promoted years of experience, in my opinion that’s just weak.
I don’t want to go into individual items further, but if I didn’t trust myself to do this, I would now consider skipping the basement. Because if I also include services that according to the offer must be done “on the client’s side,” I will probably be well above 60k including the wastewater fees. That is completely disproportionate, simply absolutely out of the question. I also think the industry is now seeing its customers flee and is trying to squeeze the lemon as hard as possible out of those who still want to build at this high price level.
Sorry if I got a bit emotional, but that had to be said urgently.