Have you even spoken to a bank yet or did you just figure out the loan-to-value ratio on your own? Somehow I have the feeling there might be a thinking error here...
Otherwise, go to one of the big intermediaries, just because one bank rejects doesn’t mean every bank rejects. If no reputable bank can be found to finance the project, there is probably a good reason for that.
A private loan would be a no-go for me personally. A small interest-free amount from your parents is okay, but what you’re aiming for you should think about carefully!
I don’t think this counts as equity capital, it is a burden registered on the house. Also, when determining your max monthly rate, the repayment for the private loan is included.
It’s best to write down the actual numbers. Purchase price, ancillary costs, renovation costs, equity, loan amount ... then you will surely get a useful assessment of your project here.