These problems always come up. I understand that. Everyone is on edge. We have also come to an agreement. My husband is planning the furnishing of the rooms; especially the kitchen. He simply has a better eye for room layouts. I then give my feedback on it. We decided the following: If one of us doesn’t like it, then it will not be done that way and further research will be done. That is logical and reasonable. There are so many possible solutions. Your house construction should not end up ruining the relationship in the end.
Good luck and peace!