We have almost the same numbers for our project. Necessary credit about 460,000 EUR, monthly net about 5,500 EUR, and targeted monthly installment about 1,900 EUR. Only with the difference that both children are already here with us, so we know which fixed costs we have with children (about 700 EUR additional costs that we wouldn’t have without children) and also what income losses result from my wife’s part-time work.
I think it depends a lot on lifestyle. For us, even with the planned monthly installment of 1,900 EUR, about 500 EUR still remain monthly as a buffer. However, we almost never go out to eat (which is usually more stressful with small children anyway) and we also pay more attention to prices in general. You just have to set priorities for what you want to spend your salary on, but in principle, in my eyes, it is doable.