House heavily in debt, 50:50 shares - separation

don’t understand the discussion. Were they at the bank and what does it say? If he doesn’t cover the debt service, the bank will not release the woman from liability

don't understand the discussion.

It's not that difficult. It's not about the money.

It's not that difficult. It's not about the money.

aha it's not about the money I'm increasingly reading that the man wants to come out of the story better than the woman

I don't understand the discussion. Were they at the bank and what does it say? If he doesn’t cover the debt service, the bank will not release the woman from liability

In an unofficial inquiry without proper paperwork, "he" just listed all his expenses and pessimistically counted his money. He rounded up all expenses, included insurances he no longer has today, etc... Overall, a €950 installment on €3000 net income is not a gift, but doable. However, he calculated it poorly. With an official application, you can also present the numbers a bit nicer. There are no other loans and liabilities. The bank generally does not want to release someone that easily. If at all, only with pressure and so on.

aha it’s not about the money I’m reading more and more that the man wants to get out of the situation better than the woman

"She" offered this deal, not he. If you look closely, theoretically he is making a good deal.

950€ installment with 3k net is doable, right? You just have to skip a ski vacation.

Or skip the food? I wouldn’t have to torment myself for a house ... or is the post meant to be ironic?