Hi,
Bring documents with you! In this appointment, many points of the construction process have already been discussed. And also things like:
[*]Screed recess for the chimney
[*]Who should take care of the earthworks and the disposal of the excavated material?
[*]How and when will your own work be done?
[*]Scheduling, when does construction start, when can detailed discussions on-site take place, will you maybe be on vacation and unreachable?
[*]etc...
So for us, this was not a coffee party (there was coffee and cookies anyway...), but rather a serious project meeting.
In general; be kind and nice to each other, you can (and will) argue later on.
Remember, the construction manager basically has the same interest as you: to get the construction done quickly and smoothly, but he sees it from the general contractor’s point of view and you from the client’s point of view. You should therefore consider the construction manager only as a professional partner, he is not necessarily your friend! (But not your enemy either...)
Best regards and good luck,
Andreas