So a base price of 350,000 EUR is too high. For example, I have an offer for a turnkey house with 180 m² including a basement without a white bathtub for 260,000 EUR. Of course, quite a bit will be added to that, but 90,000 EUR are still missing. However, that is not dramatic, I will simply draw the floor plan I sketched with Revit smaller, I already know where the space will be "stolen" from. Thanks anyway for the cost estimate.
As for the ventilation ... yes, that is currently a main topic of discussion with us. I have not yet encountered a silent one even in show houses (where I think they make an extra effort to sell their services). The no-mold argument is heard most frequently. However, I must also say that my father has had a solid house (36.5 exterior wall, I don't know the exact composition) for over 20 years and does not ventilate nearly three times a day. However, mold inside or algae outside (the house is plastered) have yet to appear. The heating consumption (unfortunately I have no idea about the theoretical requirement, but it is probably quite high) is just below the 2009 energy saving ordinance level. Additionally, we were told that with a ventilation system you can no longer open the windows, or rather should no longer ventilate through the windows, and we definitely do not want that. For example, in our current apartment, we completely turn off the heating in summer and always keep some windows tilted. Of course, energy is lost with tilted windows, but a turned-off heating system does not consume much. As you rightly say, we will get professional advice from an energy consultant again. Thanks for the clarification about what a shell house is. I thought doors and windows were missing too, meaning it is only a brick shell. One option that I think I would like (of course, it depends on what it costs) would be planning by the architect, execution by a general contractor (so you don't have to deal with dozens of individual craftsmen, but only one construction company), and supervision by the architect. However, as far as I have seen, the tendering of trades is a relatively small item in the HOAI, so that option could be too expensive.