Hello,
I think a lot is being interpreted here. So let's go over the facts slowly again:
1. My wife and I (we have a child together) were offered a piece of land by a third party to whom we are not related
2. The land price X would be provided to me by my family in advance as an inheritance advance (instead of a bank loan, which we could also take out)
3. I will pay for the land with the inheritance advance
4. Question: who should be listed in the land register?
4.1. Me because the land was paid for with my early inheritance (disadvantage: my wife is not listed even though she will contribute to a future house)
4.2. Both of us with a marriage contract stating that in the event of divorce and sale of the property, the land price X will not be taken into account?
4.3. Another possibility?
5. For the house, we would then take out a loan from the bank
This is not about putting a house on my parents' land, the land is being purchased by me with my inheritance advance (I could also buy other things with the money). Also, I would not want to evade taxes if any were to apply. However, I assume this is not the case since the land price is below the exemption amount of 400,000€.
Oh dear, I was not aware that this could be interpreted so differently than I originally intended. Sorry!
Edit: I am very grateful for any advice, which of course does not constitute legal advice!